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Oguntubi Ayodele

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Family! Its Essence.
January 12, 2003 @ 03:38 AM

Have you ever stop to appreciate your family and background?! Have you ever stop tp think How the process of growing with a certain kind of people has shaped your life.
Have you consider the struggles, the joys, the pains, the losses, the laughters, the vacations, the fights, the love, the support, the hugs, the nice and encouraging words, the spiteful word, the care in times of need and so much more that forms a lasting experience and shapes our lives.
The very Essence of our lives are the products of that unique fellowship- our families!
Regardless of what it means to you, you must see thru and learn to appreciate your family

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January 13, 2003 @ 09:36 AM

I think you are pretty right. The respect of our respective families is a basis of building a culture of life, & a civilisation of love.

The Family remain one of the basic forces shaping the life of every child. Including each & everyone of us. Image you absolutely said it well!


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September 17, 2004 @ 11:56 AM

Family tells much about society.


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September 18, 2004 @ 04:38 AM

SHORT:

The base of Humanity is an Individual.

Ave Futuria


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December 1, 2004 @ 01:20 AM

Originally posted by Katulus
SHORT:

The base of Humanity is an Individual.

Ave Futuria


Yes, but the family one come from will show in one characters and attitude. Our family must be appreciated in all our doing.


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December 2, 2004 @ 03:41 AM

Roughly 80 % of families are un-functional. If the percentage was lower, world might be better place.

(Depends what they teach you in family !)

Besides people think any form of family is good. For me only good is fully functional family - where is a place for cooperation and mutual support.

Disfunctional families should be forcibly breaken apart, as keeping them alive harms Humanity and Individual !

Ave Futuria: Freedom ! Equality ! Progress !


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December 2, 2004 @ 12:50 PM

Thanks friend,

That is the main reason why we now aday youth can now be putting structure of how will want our future family to look like. Most of the problems facing with society came from family and the best way to correct most of them is to make all our possible best not to go into any shameful family and we can started put it in place now.

Thanks once again.


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December 4, 2004 @ 03:44 AM

Ok. We seem to agree that we have clear problems in front of us if we talk on family issues.

Foremost its poverty! Poverty itself pushes people off balance and for that they are forced to do various things. (we know that there are many)

And second is lack of pragmatism and lack of will to reach consensus and agreements among the participants of the family union ! People in most cases just demand too much from eachother.<-- should wrote that in capital letters.

Ave Futuria


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December 5, 2004 @ 07:28 AM

First we need to define a family in broader context rather than a nuclear family to appreciate the works that our forefathers had prepared for us.I do not agree that one got to appreciate the works that our families do for each one to be where you are supposed to be.But i agree that once you are grown up the expectations are high,demand high as well for you to perform miracles the reason is poverty and lack of understanding among participants of a family union.As at now we the globalisation of cultural heritage,the values of our families shall be absorbed in universal common practices without identical cultural,religious inclinations.Maybe that what some of the people would call morden world.
Therefore,a family is an inter-relation of different human species(creed) looking forward to making the world a pleasant place to dwell in.


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December 6, 2004 @ 05:21 AM

Family:

classically that means father, mother and children.

Modern qualifications are various and there are many.

In out time there is a wish to force all modern forms to be same as traditional forms.

While we want that to happen we are loosing time to help out those classical families to survive test of modernity.

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Woman’s identification.
December 12, 2004 @ 09:38 AM

I can’t understand why woman after getting marry change her family name and should take her husband’s. Doesn’t she lose the identification of her family? Is wife’s family name worse than husband’s? Why woman is always under somebody’s control? Why man rules everywhere and to begin in the family?
Can you answer?


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December 13, 2004 @ 04:19 AM

but it's only in Europe and what about Asia, Africa.
you can't find their equility!!!!!!!!!!!


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December 13, 2004 @ 07:27 AM

Originally posted by polola
I can’t understand why woman after getting marry change her family name and should take her husband’s. Doesn’t she lose the identification of her family? Is wife’s family name worse than husband’s? Why woman is always under somebody’s control? Why man rules everywhere and to begin in the family?
Can you answer?



Probalby this sounds weird, but in Futurist tradition, if the coupld gets married, they also put their partners family name after his family name.

Example: Tomi Lovrenc marries Tina Kranjc, therefore he carries the name "Tomi Lovrenc - Kranjc", while she carries full name "Tina Kranjc - Lovrenc ..

One of core issues Futurist stress is Equality and that sentiment is so manifested in a marriage.

BTW: Son or daughter at age 15 or 18 can select which of the two family names will he os she use..

Ave Futuria


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December 14, 2004 @ 03:21 AM

you are right,
equility!!!!!!!it is the most important in any society.i am absolutly agree.


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December 14, 2004 @ 04:26 AM

Originally posted by polola
but it's only in Europe and what about Asia, Africa.
you can't find their equility!!!!!!!!!!!


The custom i written above is understood as "a big step forward" a vital contribution to the Evolution of Humanity. It is very good to improve yourself. On that way you become the best and strong. If other communities wil not achieve that, they wil fall behind and be clearly destroyed.

There is no need to allow preservance of anti-human behaviour. Allow it to be eliminated is best. Talking about "diversity" really sucks. If you let that happen its usualy the worse part of Humanity that takes over.

Ave Futuria: Freedom ! Equality ! Progress !


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